How does a 14 year old, teenage girl act more mature than her much older aunt? Why do mom's often protect their own daughters over their grand daughters? Hmmm ... if someone was mapping out Mark's heart, it would seem to capture Mark's heart that one needs to be like Angela was, when she was 14 years old where she was strong, humble, forgiving and could let slights against her go. She was willing to be a bigger person, a more mature person than her adult aunt.