Trauma

Level 4 Friendships

Friendships are fascinating. The deeper the friendship the more fascinating. Think about it, why do we have a lot more Level 1 Friendships (people like us) than Level 2 (people are irritated by us) than Level 3 (people will love us) to Level 4 (Our life visions connect.)

People have shared with Mark ... "I have never met someone who has invested more time into thinking about friendships than you have Mark. Why is that?"

Mark shares ... "I love people but I don't like people." The number one reason Mark doesn't like people is because they aren't honest. People lie all the time!

Watch this video and then write down what you think you've heard. And then ... write down what you think / feel about what you heard.

When Jim shares that "... Mark is your best friend, if you have a sincere desire to grow, if you have the humility, want to be accountable and have people in your life where we collectively make our time on earth count, Mark will be your best friend. But ... you need to be warned also, that's the fact, that if you don't want that, if you just want to go through the motions ... if you just want to keep walking down the road blind to the things that are tripping you up, keeping you from everything that you need to be ... then ahh ... this guys going to expose you pretty quick you know. So ... you might want to move on. You know ... if that's you don't have the sincere desire to grow ... then "This is going to be the worst thing you ever made up your mind" ...

1-1: Don't Lie To Mark

Don't like to Mark and for sure don't lie to yourself! Mark shares that if you lie to him or lie to yourself he doesn't believe you will ever be a Level 4 Friend. If you lie ... well ... you knowingly move yourself out of a Level 4 friendship with Mark. It's your choice.

Curious?

Don't bother explaining why you lied (Mark will ask you if he wants to know) ... liars always have a good reason in their own mind. 

Oh ... at a Level 4 friend ... maybe any level ... if you withhold information that Mark believes he needs to make wise life decisions. 

If you seek to deceive Mark, that may actually be worse than lying.

Mark's Only Boundary ~ Don't Be Stupid!

OK ... so hopefully "you get the drill." Don't lie to Mark or lie to yourself. What's next? Don't be stupid. Now ... if you are the type of person who needs to have this spelled out ... well ... this is going to get very interesting very fast.
Would you rather be stupid or ignorant?
  • Ignorant is not KNOWING what to do.
  • ​Stupid is not DOING what we know.
Audio Podcast
What Is Stupid?
Now ... just to clear ... this is not an exhaustive list ... people keep doing more and more stupid things ... but ... it's a good start.

"I want to be nice ... but everyone is so stupid" ~ click ~
Is stupid a bad word? ~ click ~
Don't Be Lazy ~ click ~
Don't have your HUA ~ click ~ 
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