Engineered CLARITY
What Are Energy Vampires?
How do we make sure that we're not a part of the problem?
When you watch this video ...
... Do you see both sides of the problem?
So ... What Do You Think?
We can improve our EQ by learning how to be more self-aware and aware of those around us.
1. The Victim (Amiable) // Hero (Driver) ~ The Villain
a. Listen but not fix them. ??? (When ready to fix, let me know)
b. Set firm boundaries
2. The Downer (Analytic) //
a. What do you WANT?
b. Small talk and move on.
c. Distance or Confront Them
3. The Narcistic (Expressive)
a. Keep realistic
b. How can it benefit them?
4. The Manipulator (Amiable)
a. Thank them and say "No" and/or ask them to do something for you.
5. The Controller (Amiable)
a. Never tell them what to do?
b. Stick to the issues.
6. The Split Personality (Happy & Angry)
a. Stay emotionally neutral.
b. Don't take sides.
7. Attention Seekers ~ The story tellers (Expressive / Analytic)
a. Set boundaries
b. Be honest
Deal With:
1. Fix
2. Change
3. Eliminate
- Why is Manage Up & Out so powerful? ~ We often watch something ... and actually think it's really good ... but then do not internalize it. We do not think deeply about how what we learned could change our lives forever. We do not TAKE ACTION on what we learned!
- What is Manage Up & Out? ~ After every video, white paper and/or mastermind call we encourage members to share at least two or three things.
- 1. What did I LEARN.
- 2. What ACTION will I take.
- 3. What do I need to learn NEXT?
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What is an ARRT Mentor and two ARRT Buddies? ~ ARRT "Atomic Ripple Reaction Tree / Team" and is designed to take what we have learned and share it with the world. Each individual is assigned one ARRT Mentor and 2 ARRT Buddies.
Do This!
When we know our life vision we will get FAR more out of any group we are in. Share this with others in the group.
Engage!
When we engage and share our questions, challenges, problems, thoughts and insights we give more and get more.
What Is Your Personality?
Hmmm ... this is interesting!
So ... have you ever been part of a networking or mastermind group and did not feel you really gained a lot of value from participating?
We approach mastermind groups in the most fascinating way by knowing one another's personalities so we can be helped and help others.
My Question, Thought or Topic For The Group Is ...
Do you have a question, topic, thought, problem or anything you would like input on, from the group?
Other Sessions You May Enjoy ...
#1 What Am I Missing?
#2 Harvard Says ...
"10 things ..."
#3 Medical and highly educated
"Nail In The Head" ~ How we can help the students, parents, and teachers to produce highest quality impact in the community?
To be successful in the 21st Century Harvard School of law says these are the 10 most important things. A Thomas Jefferson ...
Procrastination is the bane of every student’s existence. We know what we should be doing; we just don’t want to do it!
* * * Discover My Life Vision * * *
Why am I here? What is my purpose?
What is the biggest challenge you are currently facing? Would you like to solve that problem? This simple and easy exercise will help!
We will get so much more from this group when we do this simple exercise ... AND ... we will be able to connect our vision to others.
Do you need help with follow through, motivation, organization or consistency?
It's alright ... Most of us do! :-)
Most of us belong to Engineered CLARITY Community (EC2) because of all the resources provided, the mentor and buddies we are assigned who help us gain extreme clarity, improve our follow through, motivation, organization and consistency. :-)
"Education is not the learning facts, but the training of the mind to think."
Notes From Others ...
Do NOT cheat yourself on improving your EQ and "just take these notes from others." Watch the video write out your thoughts BEFORE you read what others are thinking.
- I'm stupid ... and I don't even know it! We often think others are stupid but fail to see it in ourselves. Good to apply the mirror principle and see whatever we see in others has some truth of that in ourselves. Until we realize that, probably good to be cautious in sharing with others before we self examine.
- People around me are stupid ... ~ Like minded people tend to gather around other people like themselves. This is not bad in and of itself but if we're just around people who think like we do, we will have this.
- I never realized ... or even thought that stupid was a "moral" thing! How crazy, cool and amazing is that?
- Hmmm ... maybe ... this is what I have been looking for, for years?!?! Why does a company / organization start out "good" with a great cause, intention and vision and when it gets large, it seems to become internally focused and then self destruct?
- Awesome Feature - Super Cool Thing #1
- Even Cooler Feature - Amazing Thing #2
- And So Much More...
Weekly Mastermind Calls
Life Masteries Institute hosts numerous mastermind calls each week for many different topics! If you have never been a part of a mastermind group...they are VERY different than a networking group! While networking groups give you a fish, mastermind groups help you learn how to fish by working on your biggest challenges!
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